Welcome Swingers, Nudists, BDSMers, Kinksters and Polyamorists!

Are you having challenges with sexual performance or fulfillment?

Are you finding that conventional medicine isn't working?

Looking for help from someone who truly understands your lifestyle...AND...has firsthand experience living it?

If you answered “YES” to any of these questions, I’m here to help you explore solutions and enhance your sexual well-being.

If you feel like your mind is getting in the way of your most satisfying experiences, I help you gently clear those blocks so you can fully savor every intimate moment.

I help Sexually Adventurous Adults Break Free from Mental Blocks and Trauma to Enjoy Deeper Sexual Pleasure

If you’re in the Swinging, Nudist, or BDSM lifestyle and struggling with mental blocks, you deserve a hypnotherapist who truly understands—because I’ve lived it.

I combine hypnosis, hypnotherapy, and lifestyle coaching to help you enhance pleasure, overcome performance issues, manage kinks, and release past trauma—without shame or guilt.

Since 2009, I’ve been part of these communities, giving me firsthand insight into their unique challenges and joys.

My mission is to help you embrace your desires, boost your confidence, and enjoy your best sexual life—free, empowered, and fully alive.

Meet Traci Kanaan, Your Erotic / Sex Hypnotherapist

Traci Kanaan is a certified hypnotherapist, lifestyle coach, and former stand-up comedian who blends deep therapeutic skill with real-world experience in erotic communities. Since 2009, she’s been immersed in the swinging, nudist, BDSM, and kink worlds, giving her unique insight into the desires, challenges, and nuances of sexually adventurous adults.

Known for her warm, nonjudgmental approach, Traci helps clients release mental blocks, heal from past experiences, and embrace their sexuality with confidence and joy. Her sessions combine hypnosis, hypnotherapy, and lifestyle coaching to create a safe space where pleasure is celebrated and shame is left at the door.

When she’s not guiding clients toward erotic empowerment, Traci brings her trademark humor and lightheartedness to everything she does—because she knows the journey to deeper pleasure should be as fun as it is transformative.

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Just a few of the cases I've worked with...

Confidence Issues In Swinging

A male client wanted to explore the swinging lifestyle but lacked the confidence to approach other women about having sex with him. I assisted him in building his confidence to the point where, a few years later, I unexpectedly ran into him at a club. He even asked me out! (I respectfully declined due to our professional relationship, but the next woman he approached accepted his offer!)

Erectile Dysfunction

One of my clients was struggling with sexual performance issues due to an overwhelming fetish and excessively high self-expectations in the bedroom. I worked with him to explore the origins of his fetish, helping him come to terms with it. Additionally, I assisted him in balancing the expectations he had for himself during intimacy, guiding him to shift his focus from “achieving results” to “enjoying prolonged sexual experiences.”nged sexual experiences.”

Not Being Able to Swallow Semen

Mental Block Regarding Oral Intimacy! I had a client who had been happily married for over 20 years but struggled with the act of swallowing. Upon exploring her history, I discovered that she had a medical issue with her throat as a child, which contributed to her aversion to swallowing. I assisted her in processing the trauma related to her medical issue and then reprogrammed her mindset to visualize her husband as a provider of her favorite beverage.

Helping Swingers Enjoy The Lifestyle

My client had been in a monogamous relationship for 35 years. He and his wife wanted to explore swinging, but he faced several challenges with "performing" with a new partner while using a condom, especially with others in the same room. To address this, I hypnotized him so he could enjoy protected sex with a new partner, whether in private or in a playroom.

Past Domestic Violence

Spousal Abuse During Pregnancy. One of my clients experienced abuse at the hands of her husband while she was pregnant over 20 years ago. I assisted her in processing the trauma associated with the abuse, enabling her to move past its emotional triggers and find peace with her experiences. Additionally, I helped her reconnect with the son she was carrying at the time of the abuse, which ultimately strengthened their relationship.

Master/Slave Relationships

I had a client who adored his wife and wanted to be her devoted slave around the clock. However, after a few weeks, they would have arguments, leading to months of no intimacy. Using my experience as a lifestyle coach, I helped them manage their expectations and establish time limits for their sessions. Additionally, I created two hypnosis recordings for him in his native language to help him maintain his submissive mindset.

Sexual Trauma, Phantom Vaginal Pain

One of my clients experienced severe abdominal pain during sexual intercourse. She had spent thousands of dollars on X-rays, MRIs, and consultations with multiple doctors, all of whom found nothing physically wrong with her. In our session, I discovered that she had been raped multiple times as a child. I helped her work through each painful memory until they were "cleared," allowing her to experience sex without pain.

Gay Leather Lifestyle Guilt & Shame

Exploring the Gay Leather Lifestyle. I had a client who was eager to embrace the gay leather lifestyle. He would sign up and pay to attend events, but ultimately, he would stay home due to feelings of guilt and shame, as well as fear of being discovered by someone he knew. Through hypnotherapy, we uncovered the internal conflict he faced between wanting to express himself and feeling the need to be responsible. We worked together to help him navigate these feelings and move forward.

Hypno-Slave Reprogramming

A client of mine, who described herself as a "slave," asked for help in undoing some hypnotic suggestions that her former "Master/Owner" had imposed on her. He had established multiple suggestions binding her exclusively to him. After their breakup, she sought to remove his programming. I helped her reverse these suggestions and empowered her to create new triggers that she could share with anyone she chooses.

Coping With An Abortion, Interracial Relationship

I had a client who was in an interracial relationship and became pregnant. Her racist family pressured her to have an abortion, fearing the challenges of having a "mixed child" in their family. Shortly thereafter, the father of her baby was killed in a war, making the loss of her child even more traumatic for her. I worked with my client to help her mentally reconnect with her baby, process the grief of losing the father, and navigate her complicated relationship with her family.

Post Hypnotic Suggestion Reversal

One of my highly suggestible clients received a post-hypnotic suggestion from a Hypno Femme Domme, stating that he would be unable to get aroused with another woman if they ever broke up. After they eventually ended their relationship, a few months later he entered a new one and realized what had happened. I was able to override her post-hypnotic suggestion by giving him a new one that he could assign to his new partner. Additionally, I provided him with a multi-orgasmic trigger.

Jealousy, Polyamorous Relationships

One of my clients enjoyed threesomes, however, his partner would get very jealous. I worked with "him" on being able to get past "the jealous look" he got from his partner, and I worked with "her" to overcome self-esteem, confidence, and insecurity issues that began in childhood. Both of them were able to continue their relationship with each other while exploring polyamory partners with carefully set boundaries.

Sexual Abuse & Torture

One of my clients experienced sexual abuse by an authority figure at school and was further traumatized by being forced to witness disturbing acts of violence to ensure her silence. These memories resurfaced 15 years later. I assisted her in coming to terms with these memories, enabling her to find peace not only within herself but also with everyone affected by her trauma.

Human Trafficking

One of my clients was never diagnosed with autism, and as a result endured emotional abuse with her parents. When she left home, she was picked up by "not nice people" and trafficked for a time. She was rescued by a nice man who helped turn her life around. When he passed away, she was accused of his murder. Our work focused on better managing her triggers and re-directing her energies into productivity instead of self-destruction.

The Guilt Of Being A Child of Parent Who Collected Porn

One of my clients was constantly exposed to the kiddie porn collection of his father. His father would show him these images regularly, and many of those images were etched into his mind. He knew this was wrong and developed several protection mechanisms to keep himself and his friends away from his father. Our work focused on making peace with the images he was exposed to, and managing his guilt so he and his new wife could live a more normal life.

Being one of the few Erotic / Sex Hypnotherapists in the world, I get some fucked up requests.

I’m a certified hypnotist and hypnotherapist, and a proud member of several professional organizations. I also have the joy of teaching other hypnotists and therapists the techniques I’ve developed.

Because I want every session to be safe, ethical, and truly beneficial, I only take on work that aligns with my expertise, values, and professional standards. That’s why, if you’re interested in Erotic or Sex Hypnotherapy, we’ll start with a Consultation Call, either In-Person or Virtual. I do this so we can interview each other and see if we can work together. We'll discuss your issues and goals, and I'll propose a few options on how to get you to where you want to be, including the number of sessions I think you'll need as well as the cost.

Before you book your call, please review the following:

Sessions I Don't Accept (see section below)

Wings Hypnosis Client Agreement

Privacy Policy

Terms of Service

Sessions I Do Not Accept...

To ensure safety, ethics, and mutual respect, there are certain types of sessions I will not conduct. Any attempt by a client to engage in any of the sessions listed below, or any type of session I deem as inappropriate and/or illegal, will result in the IMMEDIATE termination of the current session, forfeiture of all remaining sessions in a package, and NO REFUNDS.

Any session involving nudity, masturbation, or sexual acts.
Femme Domme hypnosis where I act as your Mistress, Dominant, or Top.
Any sessions where I am your submissive, slave, or bottom.
Hypnosis designed to make you “fall in love” with me, someone, or something else.
“Hypnotic amnesia” meant to erase memories of people or events.
Free sessions in exchange for “service.”
Any fantasy or role-play involving children or animals (real or imagined).
Activities that cause harm—temporary or permanent—to yourself, others, children, or animals.
Any form of incest, even if all parties are of legal age and give their consent.
Violence, mutilation, or physical damage of any kind.
Self-harm, suffocation, auto-erotic asphyxiation, or anything that has the potential to cause temporary or permanent harm or death to yourself and others.
Hypnosis sessions involving blood, urine, or feces, real or imagined.
Financial domination (hypnotizing you or someone to give money on command).
Programming you to surrender complete control and decision-making to myself or anyone else.
Hypnotizing owned slaves or submissives for BDSM purposes without a consultation and written consent from their Owner(s).
Teaching you how to use hypnosis to seduce another person to fall in love with you.
Any session that does not adhere to SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual), RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), or PRICK (Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink) principles.