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Beyond Gratitude happiness & joy Nov 25, 2024

Every Thanksgiving, I see a myriad of blogs and articles on Gratitude because many people think that the key to happiness is gratitude. And then, there are the cynical people like myself who believe it takes a helluva lot more than just "gratitude" to be happy!

In a world where positivity often ste...

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When Your Neighbors ROCK! happiness & joy Nov 18, 2024

A few weeks ago, I wrote about my asshole neighbors and how my husband and I have been (and still are) the targets of a bullying and harassment campaign by our neighbors over a roofing issue that my husband has spent countless hours trying to fix. I received many comments about that blog, but

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How The Dark Arts of Hypnosis Influenced The Election changing your focus Nov 11, 2024

The election results are in...and while the majority of Americans who voted are delighted with the results, several million Americans are wondering, "What the fuck just happened?" Both Republicans and Democrats will attest that "the other side" is fucking nuts. Democrats are certain that Republicans...

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When Your Neighbors Are Total Assholes love & relationship Nov 04, 2024

After several disappointing events, Doug and I found ourselves in limbo.  Our condo wasn't large enough, and the 2nd floor became increasingly difficult for us both to navigate.  We bought some vacant land and hoped to build a home, but the price of materials made building the home nearly double the...

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When The Holidays Become Hell-idays: Dealing With Deaths love & relationship Oct 28, 2024

Trigger warning: This blog post mentions suicide

My husband and I faced one of the most stressful weeks we've ever had in our marriage. We got through Hurricane Helene and Hurricane Milton with easily repaired damages. We have three condos undergoing some renovation or repair. We moved 80% of our b...

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It's Voting Season! Elect To Take Care Of Yourself! changing your focus Oct 21, 2024

The election will be over in a few weeks. Everyone seems to be on edge, and many things get put "on hold" until we know who is going to be our next President. Election season can be a whirlwind of emotions and stress. Prioritizing self-care is critical to maintain your emotional well-being during th...

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When Your Blog Goes Bye-Bye changing your focus Oct 14, 2024

My assistant and I have a system in place for how we get our newsletters done. I write the blog, find the photos I want to use, get the quote, and then put it into a form. I wrote this amazing blog about how my community came together in Hurricane Milton. I put the information in the form, sent my a...

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It's Just Stuff: The Devastating Effects of Losing Your Possessions In Natural Disasters changing your focus Oct 07, 2024

When I moved to Florida, I had much to learn about hurricanes. Thankfully, my first husband and most of his family survived Hurricane Andrew in 1992, which led to major changes in building codes and informed the public when and where hurricanes might hit. I moved to Florida in 1995, but experienced ...

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Counting Your Blessings: Finding Joy in Difficult Times changing your focus Sep 30, 2024

Hurricane Helene just blew by Florida, wreaking havoc here and throughout multiple states: 100+ deaths and counting. Thankfully, we live about 25 miles from the Gulf of Mexico, so we went through the hurricane just fine. However, I glanced at Facebook and realized how lucky we were. One of my friend...

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Your Body Hears What Your Mind Thinks health & wellness Sep 23, 2024

I went to a Hypnosis Conference about ten years ago when I bumped into a Chinese medicine physician. I was telling her about a young lady I worked with who was having phantom pains in her abdomen when she was having sex. After visiting multiple doctors and undergoing countless MRIs, X-rays, and CAT ...

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Trust the Process: Embracing Patience and Persistence in the Workplace changing your focus Sep 16, 2024

It's been about 2.5 years since I was diagnosed with Hashimoto's hypothyroidism. I have had to make many drastic changes in my diet, including avoiding gluten, dairy, soy, alcohol, and nightshades (peppers). The dietary changes were some of the most straightforward changes I had to make! The lifesty...

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5 Surprising Ways You've Been Hypnotized Without Realizing It changing your focus Sep 09, 2024

Whenever I tell someone I'm a hypnotist, someone always says, "I don't think I can be hypnotized." To which I reply, "Congratulations! You just hypnotized yourself to believe you can't be hypnotized!" And then I get that puzzled look because most people have no idea they go in and out of trance all ...

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